Wednesday, April 27, 2011

First book



this is jared's very first book......and i just love it. He did it all by himself. He tried really hard to sound out and write everyone's names in our family without asking me for any guidance. he really needs to stop growing up so fast!

*we finally got all his allergist / dr appointments over with. he is officially VERY allergic to dogs, cottonwoods, elms, ALL grass, EGGS, and PEANUTS. He has grown out of his milk allergy, which is great, but i think he still now has lactose issues. we gave him some cheese pizza without taking the cheese off like we normally do and he was in the bathroom all night. so it's not something i'm going to push for a while still.

at his kindergarten check-up we learned he is still in the 30% (ish) for both height and weight. And his eyes aren't the greatest. he is a bit nearsighted like me. The dr said he is right on the verge of needing glasses, but really it might be a couple years before it becomes a problem. other than that, he is one healthy boy!

Friday, March 25, 2011

My Jared Boy!

This kid just needs to stop growing..... he is the one that makes me feel old! Registering him for kindergarten is just the beginning, I know!!

He did a smart start basketball class this last winter. It was a growing experience for all. he hated it for the first couple of weeks. Then LOVED IT and couldn't wait to go each week. and then, he was bored of it. gotta love it. He did really well. We have to focus a lot on JUST TRYING new things with this boy. He is very hesitant and watches everyone else around him just to make sure they aren't making fun of him. By the end we finally convinced him that all he needed to do was worry about himself. I'm sure we are going to be having that conversation over and over again with him throughout his life.
BUT a HUGE HUGE HUGE improvement for him, as of late, was his parent day program at school. In the fall when they did their program, he sat by me and jason, and hid from everyone. Wanted NOTHING to do with it. This week, when they did their program- he was AMAZING! He walked the balance beam, did a somersault, sang his songs, found the right notes on the piano keyboard-- EVERYTHING he was supposed to do. with NO problems what so ever. It is sometimes nice to know that he is growing up a bit-- just hopefully not too fast!

This next week I am taking him to the allergist for some testing- FINALLY. When i went to get his medical records out for this appointment (and his kindergarten one in a couple weeks) i realized that jared hasn't been to see a doctor in 2 years. yes, not since April 2009. Now, i get the terrible mom award here- seeing as he didn't even have his 3 &4 year old wellness check-ups (i'm totally not sure how that happened- guess i just haven't taken him in for anything, why take him in at all?!!) but really, this kid has an AMAZING immune system. He must get it from his dad, 'cause we all know it's not from me. I know his immunization paper is totally full, so hopefully we aren't behind on anything. I guess we will find out soon enough. And i'm so glad that hopefully this allergist will let us know so more details on what's going on with his little body!!

Monday, March 14, 2011

Getting my Craft On!!

i have some new found time on my hands that i am going to really try to use to focus on the betterment of my babies. like......bow ties!!!???? that was my little project last week. Since my boys like to dress up fancy so much, and buying these darn things are at least $10 a tie, i decided i should learn how to make them. I started with THESE EASY RIBBON bow ties. I don't have a sewing machine- so i have to channel my inner creativeness in different ways. (maybe i should start a sewing machine fund...... or i'll just wait til my mom's here in a couple months and steal hers!)
anyway, they are SUPER easy, no machine needed. I used elastic and velcro for the neck strap. The boys wore them on sunday and looked soooo adorable.
i plan on making some LIKE THESE soon...... we shall see how soon that might actually be. and maybe i'll make THIS KIND for jason- i think he was little sad on sunday that he didn't have a matching one with his boys!
i need to get phillip a plain white shirt that actually covers his belly- this kid is growing too fast!!!

*****THIS POST was just done today, little big guy bow-ties.......so CUTE!!!!

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

One expensive penny!!

And it has started! We had our first official visit to the ER last night- considering jared is almost 5 and we have 3 kids, i consider us very blessed! And to make it count even more- we ended up going to 2 different ERs. It was lovely.

At 5o'clock last night, just as i was finishing dinner preparations to have a fun evening with old friends (sky, brooke, & z) spencer decided to eat a penny. He came into the room i was in gagging and choking- as scary as can be. I started patting his back and doing heimlich stuff and he stopped gagging. he started to cry and told me he ate money. I have heard there isn't much dr.s can do, so you just wait till it passes. But spencer kept crying, complaining that it hurt. I fed phillip, got dinner all done. Brooke and Sky were there and we were trying to decide if we should get him looked at. We got him to drink a little, and j gave him some peaches, thinking it might help clear his throat (or something) but then i noticed that he wasn't swallowing his spit at all. he was just holding it and let it drop out in gobs. that made me nervous and i knew i needed to call the dr. I called his pediatricians office- and they said "take him to the ER IMMEDIATELY!!!"

lucky for us, sky and brooke were there so we could just up and leave- they watched jared and phillip. (and good thing i have given phillip a couple bottles here and there so he knew what to do!) it ended up being a long night!!
the ER took us right in for an x-ray. and as you can see in the pics above- it was lodged in there good. BUT it was in such a spot that it made him rather high risk. If it moved at all it could either go straight in his belly OR into his airway----- which would be a disaster! SOOOOO the doctors at our hospital WOULD NOT TOUCH HIM! they loaded us into and ambulance and we were sent down to primary children's hospital.

It was just our luck though, that as this all started- so did a small blizzard. The roads were TERRIBLE. i got soooo car sick in the back of that amublance! Spencer did great. we had games on the cell phone to play and the guys gave him a couple new stuffed animals to play with. Other than having to spit all the time and throwing up every so often- it wasn't too bad. he was a real trooper! (and lucky for me, before we left they brought me in a fancy smancy bre*st pump so i wasn't in a ton of pain- it was so nice of them!)

at our ER before leaving they had put an IV in spen just in case. He did such a good job with it! He was in lots of pain, but his breathing was still fine-s o there was still lots of waiting. One ER to the other- definitely lots of waiting. They also were trying to figure out the best thing to do. We had been told that they were going to sedate him and go in a fish it out. but when we got there, they decided to try something else in an effort to keep him out of an operating room.
sooo, the radiologist is who ended up saving the day!! after much waiting, they took us over to radiology. They bound his hands above his head, and bound his legs and feet together so that he was totally immobilized. he was TERRIFIED (and to tell the truth, so was I). they had him laying on the table, and while snapping pic after pic after pic, watching every move they and the penny made. They inserted a tube down his throat that had a small balloon attached to it. they inflated the balloon and used it to guide the penny back up again. yes, it was beyond traumatic for the poor kid. he was gagging and screaming and crying and......who knows what else. but, it worked like a charm and saved us from having to stay there over night and operating (which is what the next step would have been if this didn't work) they said they see about 4-5 of these a month! they knew what they were doing. that little penny popped right out.

after giving him some things to drink and cheese to eat, making sure he could swallow and such we were allowed to go home. but the weather was still terrible. so by the time we made it home, it was well after 1am.

today he is fine and back to his lovely self- extremely upset that he couldn't have chicken nuggets for lunch. they want him to just eat a soft diet for 24 hours.

we are sooooo grateful that in reality it was easily fixed. and that we have health insurance! and that brooke and sky were at our house at just the right time. and that phillip takes a bottle. and that we live close enough to a hospital that is an expert facility with children. and mostly that our little spencer boy is so brave and tough and got through the entire ordeal ok. oh, and that jason and i survived it too!

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

2 Months = Chunky Monkey


My baby is 2 months!!!! He had his check-up today and it is OFFICIAL- he is a
CHUB-A-LICIOUS CHUNKY MONKEY!!!!!

weight: 13.9 lbs = 92%
length: 24.8 in = 96%
(though i think the nurse was off- i'd say more 23.8 in)
head size:15.7 in = 45%

i just love to nibble his cute little (or not so little) rolls. I knew he was big, but i was guessing closer to 12 lbs. - i was wrong! He is just adorable! He is still a gushing fountain of spit-up, just like his big brothers! guess that's just how my babies come.

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Career Day

Wednesday was career day for jared. We have been discussing different careers since i first saw on his calendar that he needed to dress up for the day. Naturally, i first went to the costume box to see what we had on hand to dress up as. I presented him with different options: doctor, police officer, cowboy, football player, builder, etc. He had initially decided on police officer. I was fine with that. Jason also suggested politician, president of USA, businessman, etc. Jared than decided he wanted to be a JOCKEY- yes, he wants to race horses! He stuck with that for a while and in the back of my mind i hoped he would change his mind- cause really, where was i going to find a legit jockey outfit (and he wouldn't settle for anything but legit!)

we didn't talk about it for a few days- until the night before class- and i realized we didn't have anything planned. So i asked him again- he said "a businessman" I said, "really- you can be a jockey or whatever- we will find something." nope, he wanted to be a businessman.

TRANSLATION- jared really just LOVES to dress in his church clothes. He KNOWS he looks good and would wear them to school EVERY DAY if i let him. He knew if he was a businessman he could where his sport coat and look oh so slick!! i love it.

*for church he will NOT wear short sleeve shirts. He HAS to have a tie. And only very rarely will he wear a sweater vest- with a tie.

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Twins!

Spencer and Phillip have the same jammies. every time i put phi;lip in his, spencer has to go and change and put his on- no matter the time of day!! and then he will lay next to phillip and say "cheese" waiting for me to take a picture.
and of course, if i'm taking pictures of the other two, jared has to get in on the action. though the jammies he is wearing are quite "special" hand -me - downs from cousins. His belly is cute though!

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Crazy Hair Day

When i first learned that jared was going to have crazy hair day at preschool, i thought it was a bit silly. They are just in preschool. But then, as thought about it- it was a GREAT thing for my boy.
Jared has such strong anxiety to doing ANYTHING that is abnormal to him. I thought for sure he would have NO interest in doing crazy hair. I was wrong. I realize, his requested mohawk isn't really considered "crazy" to the majority of the world; but to my straight-laced boy it is VERY CRAZY.
Jared usually does his hair one of two ways: a) parted to the side, nicely combed and very handsome or b) he doesn't do it all! He won't let me do little spikeyness like i used to do when he was younger. It's either parted or nothing at all. He was very proud of his mohawk! and as it turned out- only 1 other boy in his class participated in crazy hair day- and jared was ok with that! BIG step for him!!
And of course, Spen had to get in on the action! he's pretty cute with a mohawk too! I dried and styled jared's, but spencer was just a quick little job! so by the time his dried, he had one fluffy poof on the top of his head!!

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Gems

As most of you know, nursing a newborn can give you LOTS of time to read..... more time than I have had since I was last nursing, 3 years ago. It's been kind of nice. I've already read 5 books (cover to cover!) in 6 weeks- that is really good for me!

But it also gives me more just sitting down time to read to my other 2 boys. For those that don't know my boys very well- a trip to the library is quite possibly one of their most favorite things EVER! they could read books for HOURS- and I'm not exaggerating in the least.

So it's a win/win for everyone- this nursing business!

BUT- I also try to do one session of blog reading while nursing. jason is on the computer pretty much all the time (he is doing a double master's online program with live class sessions that last 3 hours long) So my computer time is VERY limited. But lately, i have found so gems that i think are worth sharing.

One of my goals this year is to be a more hands on mom. These blogs all help with that.

First TEACH MAMA- I LOVE HER! she has a 3 & 5 year old (and another daughter a little older that i don't pay as much attention to because i don't have one that age- just being honest!) But she taught elementary and now tutors and is SOOOO CREATIVE with her kids. Search through her archives and you will find WONDERFUL stuff!!

Then PREPARED NOT SCARED - this site is mostly about getting your life organized and prepared for emergencies. She has a great system put together for important documents, etc. BUT she also has some great FHE lessons and CHORE CHARTS. The chore charts we use for our boys right now came off her sight.

There is also MADE - i just barely found this blog. But it is just fun! she is all about home MADE stuff- and this month it is all about BOY things! love it.

THIS BLOG- is a preschool teaching (in her home) mom. She is actually someone i just found recently that i went to elementary school with,. She doesn't know i stalk her. i know, that is just sad! but she has SIMPLE GREAT preschool ideas that she posts!

A YEAR OF FHE- pretty self explanatory! a little over my kids ages- but i've used some stuff off of it!

just thought i'd pass them on! so tell me (all 2 of you that still read my blog) what are your favorite mom helping blogs??

Monday, February 14, 2011

Look who's 3!!

It is a little hard to believe that my little spence is actually 3 today. We had his party last week after music makers with all his little friends. It's hard to have winter birthday parties- i've decided! We kept it simple- he is only 3 after all.
he wanted a buzz party- so i stuck to a toy storyish theme. We played "red light, green light" pretending the party hats were traffic cones and they were trying to cross the road (like the 2nd movie). We also played "hot Mr. Potato" though the pieces wouldn't stay in Mr. Potato head.

We also had a little obstacle course- they had to dress like woody (or just a cowboy) gallop around the gym to some chairs, change into a toy army soldier and weave through the grass, then grab a little ball shooter and be buzz while they shot pictures of Zurg.That and cupcakes and presents were it. It was simple and GREAT! having it in the gym at the church was sooooo convenient! my house is way too small for a party with 13 little monkeys!

We LOVE our Spencer boy so much! he is quite the firecracker! one minute the little angel, and then BOOM he will be throwing a bigger tantrum then you've ever seen. You never know what kind of reaction your going to get out of him! It keeps life fun! His favorite color is GREEN---- and he is OBSESSED with it. He is adjusting still to not being the baby anymore- but for the most part he just loves little phillip! I often find him inside phillip's crib trying to give him his paci- even when phillip is sound asleep. Such a little helper :) His favorite thing to say is "I take care of him!" and won't let me do it.

Happy birthday big boy- we love you!

Sunday, January 30, 2011

1 month





Phillip is one month today!! i can't believe how fast this last month has gone. he is just as cute as can be. for the most part he is still calm and easy going, with a few fussy moments here and there. I'm thinking of cutting dairy out of my diet to see if it helps his digestion a little better.....i've done it for a few days, but don't have much willpower. I LOVE CHEESE (and cow milk and yogurt and MILK CHOCOLATE) we shall see how it goes......i figure in the long run it would probably help me loose weight too, so i might as well do it!

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Phillip Owen!!!!!









We have the cutest little guy!!! Phillip was born a little over a week ago- and considering today was my actual due date - i am very happy that he is already here!!

He entered this world with a bang- to say the least! I don't even know where to begin to talk about the day of labor. The beginning and the end were great, but the middle was all too scary for my liking.

I'm not quite sure what I want to write about it all yet......... basically the epidural made my blood pressure pretty much stop, which in turn made phillip's stop- i just remember hearing through my oxygen "it's been 6 minutes, we have to do something." The medication they used to counter act the epidural made me feel closer to death than i ever want to feel again. We were {this} close to an emergency c-section when phillip's heart rate picked back up. They had to completely stop my labor so we could both take a couple hours to recover from all the drama. When they started it again, things weren't good. Every time i had a contraction, phillip would drop back into danger zone. Lucky for me, the epidural i had didn't cause me to loose control of my legs. i was able to roll back and forth, get up on all fours, and pretty much do whatever i needed to in order to try to get phillip to change positions.

Finally, my midwife tells the OR doc to get ready for a c-section (again). I was still only dilated to a 9 and not totally ready. But then phillip started to drop even more, and she says "we have to get him out now." She tells me just to try pushing and we'll see how it goes. Not more than 2 minutes later our beautiful (VERY BLUE) boy was out. His cord was around his neck twice. Lucky for us, he popped right out. After a little oxygen and some lovin' from his momma, he was a beautiful bright pink!

He weighed 8lbs 15oz, was 21 in long. He is one big boy!! His brothers are the cutest things in the world to watch with him. They are so quick to love and comfort him when he makes the smallest peep. He the first one we haven't had billi issues with- which has been so nice! We are all just totally in love with him. And i don't know if it's just because i'm getting older, or what, but i feel like i'm taking FOREVER to recover! My body just isn't what it has been in the past ;(

* and i feel like i need to add a disclaimer for all you epidural haters out there. I don't know yet if it was solely the epidural that caused all the problems. I had been having heart problems throughout the entire pregnancy. But the cardiologist had cleared me for labor- so i thought things would be fine. I'll be having surgery to close the hole in my heart in the next couple of months- so hopefully we won't ever have this problem again!

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Oh, it's December!


I have soooo many fun pictures from this month to post! but as always, i just haven't done it yet! but this picture NEEDS to be remembered specifically!

Jared has been absolutely opposed to sitting on santa's lap. we have seen lots of different santas this season......from a far distance!

i made an advent calendar at the beginning of the month with different things we can do to "keep my kids from asking when christmas is" or to help us celebrate the season! unfortunately for us, quite of the days were things we could do together in the snow as a family. when i made the calendar, we had a foot of snow, at least. now........ we have nothing but a muddy mess outside! i think this will be our first christmas without snow!

anyway, so on the days we had a snow activity we have let the boys come up with some other activity to do. Yesterday, jared made the decision that he was ready to sit on Santa's lap. so we went to the mall after jason got home. the lighting was terrible for my little camera- but as you can see, spencer wanted NOTHING to do with the man in red. Jared sat there and listened quietly. he told santa what he wants most. any guesses???



a waterfall.



yes, a waterfall. that is what he has been asking for, for months! it hasn't changed. he wants that , a long sword, and a viking battle axe. and unfortunately, i'm pretty sure this santa doesn't really want him to have those things! he did already get a new sword from his cousins, so we are good there. but the last thing we need is a battle axe. and we don't have any room in our house for a waterfall. (he wants a waterfall so he can play "rescuers down under." i know. it's pretty cute, but quite impossible)

soooo that isn't the part i want to record.

we came home to have dinner after sitting on santa's lap. Jason asked jared to bless the food. In his prayer he included this lovely sentence

"And please bless Santa so he doesn't have disgusting breathe"

and i had to run to bathroom i was laughing so hard. Jared had NO idea why i was laughing. he was COMPLETELY serious.

i guess his first experience on santa's lap wasn't so great!